Unusual Holiday Gifts

i love this guy, but I feel like I've lost him. Help?

I know this is a mouthful,I'm sorry. Been talking to this guy online for a couple of months now.We're really close, and we tell each other everything. About 6 weeks ago we were on the phone, and we were just about to go to bed and he came out with "i don't know what to do", so i responded with "about what?" He didn't respond to that, he just said "i've got so much work to do and i cant concentrate" I said "what are you getting at?" And he responded with "its you... you've taken over... i dunno" I said "well, taken over what??" and he said "well... you've not officially taken over...!" and i asked him to start making sense and he kept avoiding it and said goodnight to me (after practically crying down the phone caus' he didn't want me to go!) And he keeps giving me lovely compliments, calling me "wonderful" and "lovely" and saying how much I mean to him and saying how much he misses me if we don't speak for a day... he also wrote me a song and sent it to me as a gift.:) and sent 'lean on me" to me (the lyrics and the music video) we used to sit up and talk for hours, and hours, hes asked me to go on holiday with him, he helps me plan easter egg hunts for the kids at a childrens centre i run, he helped me write my fundraising speech for my charity and we were even planning on studying together for our exams. not only that, we talked every day, without fail. He even said "You know I love you." (after I said he hated me, as a joke! we do it all the time.) i replied with "lies!" and he said "only when there's a Q in the month!" so I said "well... i love you too!" and he said "good to know!" I uploaded some pictures of a day out me and my ex had, and then i uploaded some pictures of a night out me and my friend went on where i'd took some pictures of the random men we met. Then, all of a sudden, though, he seemed to stop talking to me. The day after uploading the pictures of my ex, i text him like normal and he was barely even there. He stopped texting me halfway through the conversation, which isnt like him. It waslike he didn't even want to talk to me. Then, he didnt speak to.me the day after. Or the day after. Then I text him, wondering if he was okay... and he didnt respond. Then we didn't talk again for about 6 days, but then he spoke to me on Facebook chat. I asked him why i got no response and he said he'd responded (which is unusual, since ive never *not received* anything he sent me before. But not only that, he was really clipped and cut off... not his usual self. I sent him a joke yesterday and he didn't reply for 5 and a half hours, and even then it was barely anything, and when i replied he didn't reply to that, either. I don't understand what's going on. I miss him desperately! But i also don't appreciate being ignored and him behaving like this. He's doing his dissertation which is due soon which I appreciate will keep him busy, but it's never stopped him texting before. it's all of a sudden. I'm sorry this is such a mouthful but I'd so much appreciate some help. :(

Public Comments

1. It Sounds to me like a severe breakdown of communication. And you must relate to the pic of your ex as a problem or else you wouldn't have mentioned it. Send him a mail explaining how you feel and what you think the problem might be. Take this opportunity to try and relieve any worries he may have and if he is still behaving strangely call it a lucky escape. A couple of months is definitely long enough to fall for someone, but not necessarily long enough to know someone. Good luck x
2. call him up and ask him! i think as you haven't made it clear what you both are to each other so he might think your not intrested?
3. thats quite sad, but you shoudnt' have uploaded your ex's pic, that might be bothering him, so all you can do is apologise to him as you have mentioned that you both kinda love each other. God bless :)